This is the best article that I have seen regarding this very exhausted question. I think it’s right on point. People think way too much about what the guy is going to think of them…and if you are thinking of that then maybe you aren’t ready to sleep with the person. When you are comfortable then it should just naturally happen without too much worry and confusion. And if a guy thinks you are “easy” afterward…like Jeff said..who would want to be with such a judgemental person anyway? Just think of all the ways this character trait could play out in a committed relationship and be glad you weren’t too emotionally invested with them to begin with!