Its a double standard when it comes to men. They label women all the time and cougar is a common label for older women. And in using cougar as a label they are saying she is a hot older women they want to conquer. Its a fact we have to accept and the more we know how men think of older women the more we can protect ourselves.
Currently I have several younger men that want to date me. They are at least 25 years younger than I. Its a compliment but realistically is will go nowhere. Many women say to date them and just have fun but what is the point. I want to get married. Why waste my time and be unavailble to meet the man who wants to marry me. I could miss Mr. Right while I am playing with a young boy toy Mr. Right Now.