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Mindy — Yes, it indeed take two willing to be equally committed. I wonder, though, if you’d be able to get past that inkling of doubt whenever he/she was late, or at the computer late at night …

T — I do know, and I thank you for your honesty. Beating ourselves up post-whatever doesn’t lead to growth and healing. I’m glad you and your ex can co-parent well; Rob and I do that too. It’s so sad for me to see couples who can’t get past the hurt and anger; only the kids suffer (and whatever new love comes into each one’s life, BTW).

Ken — ah! You bring up many good points here. Yes, “cheating” can be emotional (wrote about that in http://katwilder.com/2010/03/your-cheating-heart/” rel=”nofollow”>Your Cheating Heart).

I don’t agree with you that “it seems unlikely that a marriage lasts without some indiscretions and infidelity along the way.” And yes, few species “mate for life.” What makes it different for humans is — we can control our behavior. We can choose to watch too much porn (which may or may not be “cheating,” if it impacts the relationship) or screw 15 tattooed strippers in a year — or not. The choice is ours — be a cheater or don’t be a cheater.

When it comes to marriage, we agree as a couple that we’re going to be monogamous (well, most of us) If one person is unable to do that, then, as Rickey would say, there needs to be some ‘splainin’. That’s part of the bargain — I trust you, you trust me. There are such things as open marriages; maybe more people need to consider them, eh?

Jim — that’s because you are a kind man. I can’t say I’d forgive everything; again, it depends on the circumstances. But, you know, I absolutely forgave Rob. But, that didn’t mean we could back to living together.

Jessica — I’m sure all the perv priests are happy to read that …

Vincent — Do you really think the cheater suffers more than the one cheated upon? Not sure I could agree with that one!

Dan — well, now we know where you stand ;-)

Steve — Ha! well, men have cheated on some amazingly gorgeous babes throughout history. Which means, it ain’t all about the beauty …

Amy — I think it’s natural that men and women look, and flirt and maybe even like ol’ Jimmy Carter have lust in our heart. Acting on it is the problem. You didn’t, and that speaks well for you!

Jenni — Yeah, I wonder if it’s different if you’re in a relationship versus marriage. Easier to say F- off if you don’t have to decide who gets the couch and who takes the Ford Fiesta …