The problem and I say problem because i think it is, is that my bf still wants to socialise with his ex. I have met her a few times and she has been less than welcoming with me and has ignored me is social situations before. He on the otherhand thinks nothing of arranging to go to one of her parties. Fair enough but the girl doesnt like me and this makes me uncomfortable. I understand that he was with her before he met me and lived together for 3 years before she dumped him, but i dont see why he wants to stay friends especially as there are no children involved.